I have been reading "The Shack," and I came across this thought:
"To force my will on you," Jesus replied, "is exactly what love does not do."
- and -
"Submission is not about authority and it is not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect."
I found this interesting, not because "The Shack" is authoritative, but because as I re-read the passage in Ephesians on submission, this is more or less the same thought I came away with.
(Just something I thought was interesting.)
The Shack - Wm. Paul Young: Page 145.